I think, finally, I'm at the point where I can regain some kind of routine. Until I start getting things more organised I don't know how well it will work out, but it needs to happen. Still getting through some struggles, both ours and Mum and Aaron's, but things have been fine since the last blip. However we are are limited time here, which means we need to be working on making plans, something we haven't done yet. Mostly to have a little time to destress after the mess February was. Going through all of that really wasn't easy.
Honestly, I don't think I know how to put into words how stressful it all was. Suddenly not having somewhere to go when there was a plan in place for months was really too much to deal with after everything else we'd been through before that. On the subject there's no update on the estate - Mum tried to get one, because apparently the cottage was going to be sold in two weeks after they left, but so far it hasn't even been listed. This isn't a surprise, unfortunately.
This is the reason for a reminder of the Moving Fund - whatever happens we do need to move out of Mum and Aaron's, but finances are still complicated, especially with how much time the estate is taking. Mum also has other problems she wants to get solved first before she can deal with pushing harder there (it's been a very complicated time, and she can only really deal with one stress at a time). We have almost everything we own in storage, so if we can get even half of next month it would help (it's £200 a month, so an extra £100 into the fund would take a weight off my shoulders).
Honestly, I don't think I know how to put into words how stressful it all was. Suddenly not having somewhere to go when there was a plan in place for months was really too much to deal with after everything else we'd been through before that. On the subject there's no update on the estate - Mum tried to get one, because apparently the cottage was going to be sold in two weeks after they left, but so far it hasn't even been listed. This isn't a surprise, unfortunately.
This is the reason for a reminder of the Moving Fund - whatever happens we do need to move out of Mum and Aaron's, but finances are still complicated, especially with how much time the estate is taking. Mum also has other problems she wants to get solved first before she can deal with pushing harder there (it's been a very complicated time, and she can only really deal with one stress at a time). We have almost everything we own in storage, so if we can get even half of next month it would help (it's £200 a month, so an extra £100 into the fund would take a weight off my shoulders).